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		<title>“REQUEST-A-THON” ON WRCN 103.9 FM FOR ANGELA’S HOUSE</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[FIRST EVER 24-HOUR “REQUEST-A-THON” ON WRCN 103.9 FM TO RAISE FUNDS AND AWARENESS FOR LONG ISLAND’S ANGELA’S HOUSE DECEMBER 22-23, 2011 Long Islands Classic Rock, 103.9 RCN has been rocking Suffolk County for over 40 years and helping organizations all over Long Island since the beginning. This holiday season is no exception as we launch [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4 align="center"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>FIRST EVER 24-HOUR “REQUEST-A-THON” ON WRCN 103.9 FM TO RAISE FUNDS AND AWARENESS FOR LONG ISLAND’S ANGELA’S HOUSE DECEMBER 22-23, 2011</strong></span></h4>
<h6>Long Islands Classic Rock, 103.9 RCN has been rocking Suffolk County for over 40 years and helping organizations all over Long Island since the beginning. This holiday season is no exception as we launch our first-ever, <span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>24 hour “Request – A – Thon” to benefit Angela’s House.</strong></span> Angela&#8217;s House assists families on Long Island, caring for medically frail children living at home with their parents or in special homes that offer 24 hour nursing support.</h6>
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<h6>Beginning Thursday December 22<sup>nd</sup> at 10am and running until Friday December 23<sup>rd</sup>, RCN personalities Bill Powers and Orlando will broadcast LIVE for 24 hours taking song requests from listeners in exchange for a donation. It could be any song from any genre of music to raise money and awareness for Angela’s House. Along the way, there will be special guests performing live in studio as well as calling in from around the country. Special memorabilia will be available via auction from music and sports stars as well as other great items donated from merchants throughout Suffolk County.</h6>
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<h6><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Angela’s House</strong></span> is a 501 C3 non-profit organization that assists families caring for children with special health care needs that are medically fragile, chronically ill or suffering from a life threatening illness. We assist families caring for their children at home and for children that can no longer live at home we have Angela’s House. This agency was founded by the Policastro family 20 years ago following the tragic crisis they lived with their daughter Angela. This parent based origin has become the approach and philosophy they apply to each family they assist.</h6>
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<h6>The mission of Angela’s House: To identify families caring for their children who may have a severe disability or medical condition so that we may help obtain supportive services to improve the quality of life for the children and their family</h6>
<h6>RCN Midday host Bill Powers and his family are intimately connected with Angela&#8217;s House when caring for daughter Katelyn.</h6>
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<h6><a href="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/227441_1821853480495_1664960656_1821254_939550_n.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-5172" title="227441_1821853480495_1664960656_1821254_939550_n" src="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/227441_1821853480495_1664960656_1821254_939550_n.jpg" alt="" width="288" height="352" /></a>Says Bill…”We came across Angela’s House by chance when my sister, who is a teacher was talking to another parent and told them a little about what was happening&#8230;At the time we were wrapping up a 31 day stay at Children’s Hospital in Philadelphia following another surgery, when the parent said &#8220;Let me give Bob Policastro from Angela&#8217;s House a call&#8221;&#8230;Within days, Bob was in touch with my wife and he got the ball rolling to help us receive services we desperately needed&#8230;We did not know Bob or what Angela&#8217;s House did&#8230;But we would have been lost and bankrupt without him. My hope from this event is not only to raise money to help Angela&#8217;s House help fellow Long Islanders, but to get the word out about the great work they do. That way families with medically fragile children have that one less burden that my wife and I had&#8230;The feeling of isolation with nobody to turn to&#8230;”</h6>
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<h6>WRCN has always been very active in doing everything possible to help worthwhile causes in Suffolk County – Bill adds; “With the state of radio today, its almost impossible to have a radio station owner give total control of the airwaves to two idiots for 24 hours&#8230;But JVC Broadcasting is always looking to help the community and are supporting Orlando and I as we do pretty much whatever we legally want&#8230;”</h6>
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<h6>In addition to playing ANYTHING listeners who donate want to hear, Bill and Orlando will have plenty of great items to auction off as well as plenty of special and surprise guests dropping in to lend their support.</h6>
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<h6><span style="color: #ff0000;">For more information on the Request-A-Thon listen to WRCN 103.9 or visit their website at <a href="http://www.wrcn.com/" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">www.wrcn.com</span></a>.</span></h6>
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<h6><span style="color: #ff0000;">To find out more about Angela’s House – please visit their website at <a href="http://www.angelashouse.org/" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">http://www.angelashouse.org/</span></a></span></h6>
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		<title>Voyage for Vets at The Irish Times Pub in Holbrook</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Voyage for Vets”                                                             (BOHEMIA, NY) – As part of on-going drive to honor veterans, Korte Travel and Irish Times Pub and Restaurant enthusiastically invite the community to come out, have a couple of drinks, and eat some good food for a great cause at their event, “Voyage for Vets” on November 17th. All members [...]]]></description>
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<h6><a href="http://www.kortetravel.com/"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4964" title="Korte Travel" src="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/Korte-Travel.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="540" /></a>(BOHEMIA, NY) – As part of on-going drive to honor veterans, Korte Travel and Irish Times Pub and Restaurant enthusiastically invite the community to come out, have a couple of drinks, and eat some good food for a great cause at their event, “Voyage for Vets” on November 17<sup>th</sup>.</h6>
<h6>All members of the local community are invited to attend for drinks and dinner, which will have a fixed menu price of $55.  This low-key gathering will be held at Irish Times in Holbrook from 6 to 9 PM.</h6>
<h6>Attendees will also have the opportunity to an all-inclusive cruise deal to Bermuda for October 2012. Inside cabins will be starting at $619 + fees and taxes. Deposits will accepted that night via credit card. Cabins can also be booked before the affair through Korte Travel at www.kortetravel.com or calling 631.893.4232.</h6>
<h6>The public is encouraged to attend the occasion, whether a veteran or not. The proceeds from the dinner and the cruise will be donated in support of the <strong>Hopes for Heroes Foundation</strong>, as well as a portion to be donated to the <strong>Corporal Jared Kremm Memorial Foundation, Inc.</strong></h6>
<h6>Korte Travel, Cruise Planners AMEX, Irish Times Pub and Restaurant, and Blu Chip Marketing are organizing this event.</h6>
<h6>For more information, please contact <span style="color: #3366ff;"><a href="http://bluchipmarketing.net/test/">Blu Chip Marketing</a> at 631.337.1603</span></h6>
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		<title>all I want is a healthy child</title>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #00ccff;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">All I Want is a Healthy Child</span> by Christine Gerani</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">How many times have you heard that? Nobody cares if your child is a boy or girl as long as he or she is healthy and thriving. Unfortunately for the millions of parent’s that have children with genetic disorders, they suffer everyday with the fact that they might outlive their kids. Lori of Merrick is one of those Moms who worry’s every day. “It does make me crazy to think that my Greg may already have gone through 1/3 of his life. I know that nobody knows our time here on this Earth. The times I let myself think too much&#8230; I cry, get mad, all of that.”</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Lori’s son Greg has Cystic Fibrosis.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Greg will be 12 years old Saturday, May 29 and will be in the 7<sup>th</sup> Grade at Merrick Ave. Middle School in September. He is ‘The Ultimate Yankee Fan’, and is on PAL Baseball and a member of the youth Bowling League. He loves Old WW II, monster and adventure movies. Along with his older brother Matt,13 and dad Tommy, this family is just like any other, except this family fights everyday to find a cure so that they can enjoy the one thing that should never be taken for granted…life.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Please join Lori, her husband Tommy, and sons <a id="aptureLink_yGqUUrmpc3" href="http://apture.s3.amazonaws.com/00000128ac09976ae1b75092007f000000000001.mattgregg.jpg">Matt and Greg</a> at the Great Strides Walk Saturday May 22<sup>nd</sup> at Hostra University at 9am.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">If you can’t make it Saturday please <a href="http://www.cff.org/great_strides/dsp_donationPage.cfm?registeringwalkid=6735&amp;idUser=117300&amp;source=SNFB">click here</a> to donate to Lori’s <a href="http://www.cff.org/great_strides/dsp_donationPage.cfm?registeringwalkid=6735&amp;idUser=117300&amp;source=SNFB">GREAT STRIDES Home Page</a> and help make a difference in Greg’s life.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">*For more information about Cystic Fibrosis please visit <a href="http://www.cff.org/AboutCF/">http://www.cff.org/AboutCF/</a></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">*<a id="aptureLink_29Uft8wwcr" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cystic%20fibrosis">Cystic Fibrosis</a> is an inherited chronic disease that affects the lungs and digestive system of about 30,000 children and adults in the United States (70,000 worldwide). A defective gene and its protein product cause the body to produce unusually thick, sticky mucus that:</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #00ccff;"><a href="http://www.cff.org/great_strides/dsp_donationPage.cfm?registeringwalkid=6735&amp;idUser=117300&amp;source=SNFB"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2155" title="gs-widget" src="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/gs-widget.gif" alt="" width="175" height="134" /></a>In the 1950s, few children with cystic fibrosis lived to attend elementary school. Today, advances in research and medical treatments have further enhanced and extended life for children and adults with CF. Many people with the disease can now expect to live into their 30s, 40s and beyond.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Check out Greg’s YouTube Video <span style="text-decoration: underline;">last year</span> promoting the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">2009</span> Great Strides Walk at Hofstra University!</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[February 11, 2010 Local Teens Prove One Is Greater Than None Contributed by Long Island Parent Magazine Many people want to make a difference in society, but they become overwhelmed by all the causes in need, so wind up doing nothing. For eight Long Island teenagers that was an unacceptable outcome. They believed that any [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1946" title="oneisgreater" src="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/oneisgreater-247x222.jpg" alt="" width="247" height="222" /><span style="color: #ffffff;">February 11, 2010</span></p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ffffff;"><strong>Local Teens Prove One Is Greater Than None</strong></span></h4>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ffffff;">Contributed by <strong><a href="http://liparentonline.com/">Long Island Parent Magazine</a></strong><br />
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<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">Many people want to make a difference in society, but they become overwhelmed by all the causes in need, so wind up doing nothing. For eight Long Island teenagers that was an unacceptable outcome. They believed that any contribution, no matter how small, has value, and that even helping just one person makes a difference. Their conviction has led them to help 48 children in Ghana, and 1,012 Americans, through their organization One Is Greater Than None—which they founded when they were only 14.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;"> Kayla Barnofsky (16), Hayley and Jessica Feldman (17), Ariel Stern (16), Samantha Walnick (16), Samantha Malis (16) and Anjelica Mantikas (17), live in Merrick and attend John F. Kennedy High School in Bellmore; Chelsea Genden (17), attends Lynbrook High School. </span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #ffffff;"> In 2007, the friends were searching for a cause to support when they were moved by an Oprah episode that talked about children from Ghana, Africa, who are unwittingly sold into slavery for as little as $20 by their families. They were unanimous in their decision that they would work with the International Organization for Migration (IOM) to sponsor rescue missions to save these children. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">“We learned it would cost about $4,300 to save one child by providing rehabilitation and reuniting them with their families,” says Samantha Walnick. “We decided to make bracelets and package them on cards that would educate people about what was going on in the fishing villages of Ghana.”</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">It took them a while to figure out what materials worked best. And then they made enough bracelets to sell outside of Borders one weekend afternoon.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">“From a parent’s perspective, I thought it was really cute that they were doing this, and I figured they’d maybe raise a few hundred dollars,” says Ariel’s mom Shari. “And of course we’d support them and do what we could. We moms were shocked when they earned $1,000 that day.”</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">Adds Angelica’s mom, Eleni: “It was also shocking the amount of negativity they received from people. That first day a man gave them $50 and told them `even though I know it’s a hopeless cause.’ If it were me I would have been upset, but it inspired them even more.”</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">From there the girls designed a necklace and T-shirts with their logo, 1&gt;0, and their tag line “Be Part of the Equation,” which were sold at Bloomingdales, boutiques nationwide, and on their Web site, www.oneisgreaterthannone.org.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">To date the girls have raised over $120,000 to help return 24 children to their families and have sponsored another 24 orphaned children through the Touch a Life Foundation in Ghana. In addition, in response to people who asked them why they don’t do something to help people in their own country, the girls began working with Remote Area Medical (RAM), which supplies free medical care to people in impoverished rural areas.  The girls have already sponsored one clinic in Grundy, VA, and will soon be sponsoring and volunteering at another in New Jersey. <a href="http://www.liparentonline.com/cover_story.html"><strong>Click here to read the full article!</strong></a></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;"><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">READER CHALLENGE</span>:<br />
We need you, our readers, to “Be Part of the Equation” and help One Is Greater Than None sponsor another (RAM) Remote Area Medical Rural America Clinic. Our goal for February and March is to raise at least $3,500. (Just think: If 350 families each donated $10 we’d reach our goal quickly.) Just click here<strong> <a href="http://www.oneisgreaterthannone.org/" target="_blank">www.oneisgreaterthannone.org</a></strong> or send a check payable to One Is Greater Than None, PO Box 528, Merrick, NY  11566. Just put <em>Long Island Parent</em> in  the memo line. One Is Greater Than None is a registered 501 c 3. Thank you for  supporting the girls’ mission.</em></span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[January 14, 2010 Time to Give by Bonehead There’s time to be a Bonehead – and sometimes there’s not. After spending time watching the news and scanning the stories and their horrific photos of the past forty eight or so hours reporting on the devastating Earthquake in Haiti it seems somewhat inappropriate as yet to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">January 14, 2010</span></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">Time to Give by <strong><a href="http://www.boneheadblog.com/">Bonehead</a></strong></span></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">There’s time to be a Bonehead – and sometimes there’s not.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1907" title="Haiti-earthquake-001" src="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Haiti-earthquake-001-247x222.jpg" alt="" width="247" height="222" />After spending time watching the news and scanning the stories and their horrific photos of the past forty eight or so hours reporting on the devastating Earthquake in Haiti it seems somewhat inappropriate as yet to babble along with my typical snarky attitude and usual ramblings about stupid annoyances.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">So many people killed just proves once more how fragile life is, and how it can be wiped out whenever, wherever and without warning.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">You’ve seen the photos and video of the devastation – it is all quite graphic and disturbing.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">Often in a tragedy, a person’s quality will shine through by the simple human trait of wanting to help.  When you’re too far away to lend a helping hand physically – you can always help by donating dollars.  Personally, we’ve helped in some local fundraising done by Americares after both 9/11 and Hurricane Katrina – but however you may choose to do something – that choice is yours.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">The international community must rise to the occasion and help the Haitian people in every way possible.  Imagine you were faced with having <img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1906" title="BONE WANT hero" src="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/BONE-WANT-hero-198x300.jpg" alt="" width="198" height="300" />everything you knew, your home, family, pets, possessions swallowed and taken by disaster.  Imagine that such basics as running water, food and shelter from the rain were now considered a luxury.<br /> You’d want people to reach out and help you.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">Right now there are bodies lining the streets of people who’s lives were wiped out by a shift in the earths plates.  There’s not enough infrastructures remaining to properly dispose or bury the dead – which means that within days those still alive will be exposed to disease, dysentery and further hardship.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">Chances are you don’t know any of the people affected by this tragedy.  They’ll never have any effect, positive or negative in your life.  They’ll never know weather you decided to donate five bucks to an organization that can help their plight, or if you decided to slap the five bucks on the bar for another Heineken.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">But if you do nothing, you can be certain that their days of never knowing will be less likely to continue.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">Here are a few worthwhile charitable organizations that are helping the relief effort, and some you can feel confident your donation will actually get to the people who need it.  Long Islanders have always been very generous when it comes to supported those affected by disaster, may that never change.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;"><strong><a href="http://www1.networkforgood.org/help-haiti-quake-relief?source=YAHOO&amp;amp;cmpgn=NEWS">Network for Good</a></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;"><strong><a href="http://www.americares.org/">Americares</a></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;"><strong><a href="http://www.yele.org/">Yele</a></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">Do what you can, give even though there may be nothing in your hand.  Be a hero.  Just for one day.</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[BLI and Jump Parties in Ronkonkoma need your help to make a homeless child on Long Island dreams come true! If you are interested, please email jaclyn.zolezzi@coxradio.com if you would like to purchase a gift and adopt a kid for the holidays! Please fill out the information HERE and someone will contact you from the station to [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff9900;"> <strong>BLI and Jump Parties in Ronkonkoma need your help to make a homeless child on Long Island dreams come true!</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff9900;">If you are interested, please email jaclyn.zolezzi@coxradio.com if you would like to purchase a gift and adopt a kid for the holidays! </span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #ff9900;">Please fill out the information </span><a href="http://wbli.com/adopt-a-kid/adopt09.html"><span style="color: #ff9900;">HERE</span></a><span style="color: #ff9900;"> and someone will contact you from the station to match you up with a needy child who needs a gift for the holidays. Once you get your child&#8217;s name and information please donate unwrapped gifts valued up to $50 and fit accordingly to the child you&#8217;ve adopted.</p>
<p>All gifts must be dropped off to BLI promotions at BLI Studios at 555 Sunrise Highway in West Babylon between the hours of 9a-5:30p on or before 12/11. Gifts must include the child&#8217;s name and your name so we can match up all the donations.</p>
<p><strong>Please stay tuned for details on our Adopt-A-Kid Gift Wrapping Party!</strong> Gifts will be hand delivered by Santa Claus during a holiday party for the kids at Jump! in Ronkonkoma. Check out Jump Parties at </span><a href="http://www.jumpparties.com/"><span style="color: #ff9900;"><strong>www.jumpparties.com.</strong></span></a></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff9900;"> <strong>A big thank you to Panera Bread who will be providing food for our wrapping party and kids party! </strong></p>
<p><strong>A big thank you to Cassone Trailers for help us to store and transport all the gifts!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #ff9900;">Happy Holidays!</span></strong></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[October 22, 2009 Jason Mayo is Outnumbered by Christine Gerani Long Island born Jason Mayo has raised the bar for bloggers everywhere with his super popular blog, Outnumbered. Outnumbered chronicles his life with his beautiful wife Ronni, and their two adorable daughters Sophie, 7 and Ruby, 3.  A humorous blog about family life and parenting; [...]]]></description>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #00ccff;">Jason Mayo is Outnumbered by Christine Gera</span><strong><span style="color: #00ccff;">ni</span></strong></h3>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #00ccff;">Long Island born Jason Mayo has raised the bar for bloggers everywhere with his super popular blog, Outnumbered. </span><a href="http://www.outnumberedonline.com/"><span style="color: #3366ff;">Outnumbered</span></a><span style="color: #00ccff;"> chronicles his life with his beautiful wife Ronni, and their two adorable daughters Sophie, 7 and Ruby, 3.  A humorous blog about family life and parenting; Jason sometimes has to deal with controversy and guilt while also showing his tremendous heart.  We talk about his buddy’s fight with cancer and a day that changed both their lives forever.  Enjoy this wonderful interview with Long Island’s own Jason Mayo, a truly great storyteller.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Christine – Jason, tell us a little bit about where you grew up and your upbringing?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Jason &#8211; Well we moved from Rosedale Queens to Merrick here on Long Island, I guess I was going into the first grade.  I moved with my mom and my dad and my little brother.  Except for college, I’ve been here ever since.  My parents got divorced when I was probably 7 or 8, my dad moved to Jersey or Connecticut or wherever he was at the time.  It was me and my brother growing up with my mom.  My mom was a single working mom, she became a teacher.  So we were latch-key kids walking to school, coming home for lunch and after school.  You can never do that now. I don’t let my kid go two inches outside, ‘cause the white van will come and take her away.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">I went off to Oneonta College and when I met my wife we moved to Forest Hills for awhile, and then we wind up back here in Bellmore.  It’s all full circle which is funny because growing up in Merrick we’re literally a town a way now from where I grew up, but  it’s like a whole different world </span><a href="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/IMG_16851.jpg"><span style="color: #00ccff;"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1247" title="IMG_1685" src="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/IMG_16851-247x222.jpg" alt="IMG_1685" width="198" height="178" /></span></a><span style="color: #00ccff;">for me.  I don’t recognize any of it.  I don’t have any recollection of Bellmore being close to Merrick.  As a matter of fact, when I was taking guitar lessons while I was kid, I remember going to this guitar center called Focus 2 Guitar Center.  That was years and years ago, I was about 13, I remember they used to have those little rubber guitar key chains.  I bought that electric blue guitar at Focus 2. I started taking guitar lessons again about 6 months ago at this place called Music Emporium which is right down the street from here.  I say to my instructor “Ya know what, this place totally reminds me of this place Focus 2 Guitar Center, where I got my first guitar but I know it was so far away”… and the guys like “Dude this <span style="text-decoration: underline;">is</span> Focus 2!”.   Just goes to show you I basically grew up in this town across Sunrise Highway, but it might as well have been the Red Sea.  I don’t know where I am.  I just have a bad sense of direction too.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Christine &#8211; Let’s talk about your wife Ronni, you met in College?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Jason – Yea, she’s two years younger than me and it’s one of those meant to be things.  She was a junior and I was super senior.  I met her in my last semester.  If I never stayed [in College], she always jokes “If you weren’t as stupid as you were, we would never have met”.  I remember seeing her, we took chemistry together.  She didn’t know me and I didn’t know her but she was super hot.  She won the Greek Goddess Competition.  I always remember just looking at her checking her out a little bit but she was younger and she was quiet and I never used to see her out, and I was usually too drunk to remember.  But I remember seeing her at chemistry class and thinking I should talk to her.  So we had a Halloween party. It was my fraternity and her sorority and we never used to hang out fraternity &#8211; sorority wise.  I didn’t have a costume so </span><a href="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/winnie1.jpg"><span style="color: #00ccff;"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1250" title="winnie" src="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/winnie1-247x222.jpg" alt="winnie" width="148" height="133" /></span></a><span style="color: #00ccff;">instead of getting one I went and I shaved my head into a Mohawk.  I had long hair at that point. It was a long big huge Mohawk and my ex-</span><a href="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/winnie.jpg"></a><span style="color: #00ccff;">girlfriend at the time put make up on me to make me look like King Diamond, he’s a Heavy Metal guy.  So I had a Mohawk, crazy devil </span><a href="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/king-diamond.jpg"><span style="color: #00ccff;"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1248" title="king-diamond" src="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/king-diamond-247x222.jpg" alt="king-diamond" width="178" height="160" /></span></a><span style="color: #00ccff;">worshipping make up on, black t-shirt, camouflage pants and I went to this party and that’s how I met her.  She was dressed like Winnie from The Wonder Years. So we started talking that night and for me at least, but definitely not for her, I guess because what I was wearing. It was like one of those, love at first site things.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">As the months went on and we were boyfriend and girlfriend I remember my best friend and her didn’t get along. But I remember my best friend, Ladd Everitt and I, we got into a big argument about it.  So he’s being a total dick about it and I said to him “Ya know what &#8211; I’m definitely marrying this girl”.  He says “You’re not going to marry her, get over it, trust me”.  So I wrote down I will marry Ronni Berson and I wrote the date, I didn’t tell him but I put it in his junk draw and forgot about it.  Five years later on my wedding day, he gave me the envelope with the letter in it!  How cool is that!  That marked the first time that I’ve ever been right&#8230;and the last time.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Christine &#8211; So you have these two lovely ladies, Sophie and Ruby.  They’re very sweet by the way.</span><a href="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/IMG_1694.jpg"><span style="color: #00ccff;"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1254" title="IMG_1694" src="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/IMG_1694-247x222.jpg" alt="IMG_1694" width="247" height="222" /></span></a><a href="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/IMG_1696.jpg"></a></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Jason &#8211; They are?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Christine – They’re the basis of your blogs!  BTW…I love “I Don’t Do Bath Time” about the bubble bath and the penis foams.  Tell us about the </span><a href="http://www.outnumberedonline.com/2009/10/when-time-comes.html"><span style="color: #3366ff;"><strong>letter</strong></span></a><span style="color: #00ccff;"><span style="color: #3366ff;"> </span>you wrote for your girls.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Jason &#8211; I had to, I was starting to feel guilty, it was consuming me.  I drop a lot of F- Bombs and things like that because that’s just how I talk.   I try not curse in front of the kids.  In the blog, I try to write like I speak.  It’s not always grammatically correct; I spell a lot of stuff wrong.  When I read I get bored very easily, I have A.D.D with that type of stuff, so I try to write as if I’m having a conversation.  A lot of what I talk about walks a little bit of a line as far as family, and sometimes people have a problem with that.  I always notice also that the people that hate what I write always comment anonymously and they say the nastiest things.  There was a blog recently that I wrote where I call the kids assholes and I caught a lot of flack from anonymous people on the site.  Even my mom who comments all the time says you should burn this one, and my wife’s best friend was like “What do you think they’ll think if they read that someday?”  Everything for me is in the name of humor and sometimes I feel that you have to say certain things for people to really get what you mean.  I could have said “jerk”.  I’m not trying to necessarily shock someone but if I’m having a conversation with my wife and my kid is being really super nasty, in conversation my wife and I would be like she’s being a so and so.  I just happened to write about it and I started to second guess myself.  I was going to take it down, and I thought that the whole part of writing this thing for me is that one day I want them to read this stuff and see, uncensored, how things went on, because I think it would hysterical.</span></p>
<p><a href="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/IMG_1682.jpg"><span style="color: #00ccff;"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1255" title="IMG_1682" src="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/IMG_1682-247x222.jpg" alt="IMG_1682" width="247" height="222" /></span></a><span style="color: #00ccff;">Christine &#8211; Do they have any understanding yet that Daddy’s a famous blogger who writes about them?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Jason &#8211; Ya know I don’t know.  My oldest, Sophie, is extremely savvy on the computer and they are both super attentive to detail so they do pick up on a lot of stuff that goes on conversation-wise.  I remember a few months back I had bought Sophie her first real two wheeler bike.  An amazing Diamond Back, a gorgeous bike.  We were riding it and it sort of inspired me to write a blog entry about my first bike.  And really what it came down to after I started writing it is “Now that I think about it, my first bike was a piece of shit”.  It was like the gold Ross with the banana seat, it was the worst.  I thought it was completely amazing.  So I wrote this blog basically comparing, it was two boxes side by side; the old Ross and her Diamond Back and I referred to her bike as “Bad-Ass” which is a positive term.  The next day Sophie came up to me and said “I’m really mad at you” so I asked why and she says “because I thought you liked my bike”.  I said I love your bike and she said “But you called my bike bad-ass”.  Then I realized that she had gotten on the computer and seen the blog and read the whole thing.  Luckily that blog was not a filled with curses.  The tough thing was not really explaining the whole blog, but it took me 15 minutes to explain what bad-ass meant.  I knew that she’d be using it school that day, so I wanted to make sure she used it in context.  I don’t want her to call someone she hates a bad-ass, so I tried to explain to her what bad-ass meant.  It was a little bit of a misunderstanding, but I think was her first exposure to the blog.  God, I don’t want them to read it now, but I think she has an idea of sort of what it is and that people read it.</span><a href="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/IMG_1713.jpg"><span style="color: #00ccff;"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1257" title="IMG_1713" src="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/IMG_1713-247x222.jpg" alt="IMG_1713" width="247" height="222" /></span></a></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Christine &#8211; You commute to New York City where you work as Managing Director and Partner of the award winning visual effects and design studio, <em>Click 3X</em>, and the Interactive Design Boutique, <em>Clickfire Media</em>. Do you find inspiration riding the train?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Jason &#8211; I did an entry the other day.  I’d done this entry about my buddy Rich who has cancer, it might have been the first time I didn’t write something humorous.  It was something that really moved me.  So I wrote that and it was so heavy that I almost felt the pressure.  There was a point where I was thinking about not writing the blog anymore because I almost wanted to take that entry down.  Usually when I write something I can’t wait to get the next one.  I gotta move on, I get impatient.  If I don’t think it’s that funny, I want to write something better.  But there was so much meaning for me in it. If I stopped writing my blog today, I’d want people to still see that entry.  It was up there for 6 or 7 days which is kind of long for me.  I wanted to keep that alive on my blog,  but I had to get back.  The next entry I wrote, I wasn’t inspired by anything, I was feeling a little bit like there was pressure to be funny again, so I took the lap top out on the train.  I wasn’t planning on writing anything but I wanted to do something a little spontaneous, so I’m just looking around the train and I’m like “that fucking guy looks like </span><a href="http://www.outnumberedonline.com/2009/10/kenny-rogers.html"><strong><span style="color: #3366ff;">Kenny Rogers</span></strong></a><span style="color: #00ccff;">”.  I look and there is a guy across from him and he looked like Kenny Rogers and there was another dude to the side of me and he looked like Kenny Rogers and I was like “There’s a bunch of fucking Kenny Rogers on the train!”  Three dudes on the train that look like him!  Then I look around there’s someone that looks like Bea Arthur. So I wind up writing this blog, and that blog it actually freed me.  I read it back, rarely do I start laughing at my own stuff, but I felt you know what…finally!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Christine &#8211; What’s your favorite blog that you have written?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Jason –<strong><em> </em></strong></span><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><a href="http://www.outnumberedonline.com/2009/03/things-that-suck-about-having-kids-part.html"><span style="color: #3366ff;">“Things that Suck Most about Having Kids&#8221;.</span></a></em></span><strong><em><a href="http://www.outnumberedonline.com/2009/03/things-that-suck-about-having-kids-part.html"><span style="color: #3366ff;"> </span></a></em></strong><span style="color: #00ccff;">I thought it was funny because it was tearing apart the whole kid thing.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Christine &#8211; Sounds like a great title. Do ever think about writing a book one day?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Jason &#8211; I was thinking about writing some sort of a humor memoir about parenting but also anything I can do that goes to charity. So if anything getting more involved in</span><a href="http://www.gardenofdreamsfoundation.org/"><span style="color: #00ccff;"> <em><strong><span style="color: #3366ff;">Garden of Dreams</span></strong></em></span></a><span style="color: #00ccff;">, has inspired me to sort of think about possibly doing something to take the blog thing to the next level and turning it to some sort of charity effort.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Christine – We’ve talked about Garden of Dreams.  SpotonLI featured one of your blogs called <strong><a href="http://www.outnumberedonline.com/2009/10/hockey-heals.html"><span style="color: #3366ff;">“Hockey Heals”</span></a></strong> What was it like meeting former New York Ranger Adam Graves?</span></p>
<p><a href="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/RichGraves1.jpg"><span style="color: #00ccff;"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1258" title="RichGraves" src="http://spotonli.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/RichGraves1-247x222.jpg" alt="RichGraves" width="247" height="222" /></span></a><span style="color: #00ccff;">Jason &#8211; I’ve been lucky enough to meet a bunch of the 1994 cup winning Rangers in the past.  Adam in particular,  I had an experience where I commuted to Penn Station and I happened to be walking down 7<sup>th</sup> Avenue and I wind up seeing Adam Graves coming across the street holding a cup of coffee.  So I see him coming across the street and I called out to him.  He looked at me and realized I was completely crazy.  I introduced myself and I said my name is Jason and I’m  a season ticket holder and I’m a big fan, and I just wanted to say hello.  He was just one of those guys that look you straight in the eye, shakes you hand, says your name, asks you if you have any kids, asked me how my family was.  We had a about a 5 minute conversation outside the Garden.  I was just really impressed by him.  He was exactly who I though he would be.  He does so much charitable work that you know he’s a good guy. So I had this experience meeting him, I called my season ticket guy and said I met Adam Graves on the street and I would love to get his email if possible just to say hey it was great to meet you.  So I got his email and I shot him an email that day.  The next day he emailed me back and said “It was great to meet you too hope to see you at the games one day!”  He’s super easy to talk to.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">So fast forward to Garden of Dreams.  We’ve been doing season tickets for about 13 years, me, my buddy Rich and my buddy Jamie.  Every year we meet at the seats, we’re all great friends.  Jamie moved away to Florida with his family.  So it was going to be Rich and I going to the games.  Then we found out a few months back that he had cancer.  All of a sudden Richs’ health is a lot more important.  But in the back of my mind I was thinking this is our safe haven where we go to be together and have fun.  Jamie’s not there and my buddy Rich is fighting for his life. The weeks leading up to the game I said to Rich, listen I’ve got two tickets this year instead of three.  If we can go to the games we go to the games, don’t worry about paying for them, I’ll get rid of them if we can’t go.  You tell me when you can go and the ticket’s yours.  He says I just can’t commit but thank you so much!  It’s awesome!  A few days before opening night, and we never missed an opening night together, I said can you go?  He said he’d been throwing up a lot and was sick cause of the chemo.  He didn’t know but would call that day.  So the night before the game I was actually writing and I thought if Rich can’t go, I kind of wanted to do something to make him feel better because he’s been sick and hasn’t been moving around, and I know he hasn’t been in a great mood.  So I have Adam Graves e-mail and, since he responded that time, let me send him an email and explain the situation to him.  So I wrote this email to Adam explaining what was going on with Rich and how important it was to us.  The next morning I got up and my cell phone rings, I didn’t recognize the number so I picked it up and sure enough it was Adam Graves, and he says “Jason it’s Adam Graves”!  He asks how my buddy is feeling and if we’re going to make it to the game today.  I said I hadn’t spoken to him but I’d call him and find out.  He said “Listen, I got your email, I’ll do something nice for you guys, if your buddy’s on the fence tell him we’ll make it worth his while”.   I said alright.  So I called Rich and he said hadn’t been feeling too bad, he was going to definitely try to make it. I didn’t tell him that I had spoken to Adam.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">So we go to the game, got to our seats and in between the first and the second period Rich leaves to use the rest room. Some kid in a suit came down to get us and said Adam is upstairs.  I said yea my buddy is in the bathroom he might be sick.  He said yea Adam told me all about Rich.  So they took us up to this suite and I thought maybe it might be a period in the box with a whole bunch of other people. We walk into the suite and it’s just Adam, by himself. My buddy Rich didn’t know what was going on.  I introduced myself and Rich says “Nice to meet you Mr. Graves”. My buddy didn’t realize this was for him and I turn to Rich and said we planned this whole thing and he just started balling.  He just realized and he just lost it. We hugged, I said I love you, he said I love you too, he’s like this is the nicest thing anybody’s ever done for me. Adam patted me on the back. It was a great moment. We watch the whole period, the three of us. He literally cleared the suite out for us so we can watch the period by ourselves.  It inspired me.  Adam is a charity guy. He works with the Garden of Dreams Foundation.  I realized this wasn’t a Garden of Dreams sanctioned thing that he did for us; it was out of the kindness of his heart.  He does that every day.  It got me thinking about this Garden of Dreams, because I just associate him with that and that’s what they do.  They find kids that are in crisis and they use the resources that they have with these Superstars at the Garden whether it’s the Knicks, Liberty or The Rangers and they arrange these special experiences with kids. The look in my buddy’s eye and then the look in Adam’s eye, I knew how important it was for him…this is what it’s all about.  It really opened my eyes to just doing something for the sake of just doing it.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Christine &#8211; You are now raising money for Garden of Dreams? What is your goal?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Jason &#8211; I said to Adam at the game, you really inspired me to make a difference for Garden of Dreams.  I explained to him I’m a blogger and I gave him my site.  I told him that I’ll put a widget on my site and I’m going to try and raise money.  At first the goal was to raise $5,000 and I’m 70% there which is amazing, it’s been up for a couple of weeks.  I wrote a letter to the chairman of Garden of Dreams and I heard back from her that week.  We actually have a meeting to talk about how I can get more involved.  I’m not Google or anything as far as traffic goes but I do have enough loyal readers who come that can help spread the word. I think the goal for me is to just try to keep getting the word out about Garden of Dreams and use some of that positive influence to do stuff. I was even thinking about if Rich can’t make games maybe there are certain ways that I can take somebody to fill that seat on certain nights.  Maybe I can sanction that with Garden of Dreams.  I know people don’t want to give their kids to me…drinking beers with troubled teenagers…</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Christine &#8211; Not when you’re calling them assholes.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">Jason &#8211; Exactly. But whatever it is, it’s really inspired me on a whole different level. It’s given me some purpose right now.</span></p>
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